Heads I win, Tails you lose
Agenda arguments are all about winning. It amazes me that so many people lose these arguments. If a salesperson is trying to get you to buy something that's a bad deal or you can't afford then just say no.
I am in the 2011 Class at UCSF Pharmacy. This is just one person's experience.
Agenda arguments are all about winning. It amazes me that so many people lose these arguments. If a salesperson is trying to get you to buy something that's a bad deal or you can't afford then just say no.
Pure Ideology/Ideology: Ideology/Ideology arguments are just arguing for the sake of arguing; this can be enjoyable or frustrating depending on the circumstances and temperaments of the participants. Except for correcting the misconceptions and misstatements that contaminate these types of arguments (facts and agenda), a pure ideology/ideology argument will never change anything. Hopefully, the two sides will "agree to disagree". If not then escalation can easily lead to armed conflict. When someone "wins", the result is conversion.
This post and the next few ones are going to be about a Grand Unification Theory of Argument (negotiation, debate, discussion, fighting) that I conceived while thinking about the above. Last night the wife and I were out having dinner and were engaged in a discussion when the server came up to our table. She heard us arguing and said "uh, oh". She laughed when I reassured her with the above statement. But it was true. The reason that it was true is that my wife and I love each other and this was just an interesting fact/fact disagreement. What do I mean by that? I think there are three basis of disagreements: facts, ideology, and agenda. Now these are rarely pure in any argument. For example, in my discussion with my wife, we were pretty much having a minor disagreement about facts, but we also had an agenda of keeping the evening fun. I want to look at each type of argument and the winners and losers in each.